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• Dream

  

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  January 20, 2012 2:19:07 PM EST

  We can form all manner of connections with people. Some are spiritual, some are emotional, some are mental, some are physical (chemistry/lust) and some are mundane. When it comes to our partners/significant others/lovers/mates/spouses, do you think its possible to get all those different connections with one person?

• Koleckai

  

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  January 21, 2012 10:26:57 AM EST

  Absolutely. Some would call this soulmates. However these connections would be the basis of most longterm relationships. Those relationships lasting 25, 30, 50 years or longer.
• Revered Elder

  

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  January 22, 2012 1:00:28 PM EST

  I think you can, but maybe not all on the day you meet. These things develop over time, at least that's my opinion,

  
  This post was edited by Revered Elder at January 22, 2012 1:00:57 PM EST
• Jim Weeder

  

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  January 22, 2012 7:40:43 PM EST

  I think and know so. I have a friend that I met back in 1982 we formed a kinship from the start. We lost track of each other because of our jealous spouses in the 90’s but just last year we found ourselves again since we got rid of those spouses. I have a friend that it took a bit of time to form that kinship. I think it just depends on the interaction. Who knows it may be that they are lost loves from past lives.
• LittleEarth

  

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  March 13, 2012 3:41:20 AM EDT

  A bit late but here's my 2 cents anyway...
  
  I agree with what's been said so far, and I definitely second Koleckai's suggestion about soulmates. We make so many connection throughout our lives, but rarely feel all of them with one person: maybe one per lifetime? Each connection makes its mark no matter how fleeting but I also believe that these connections can be built upon.. its just a question of tearing down the walls we build around ourselves. Sometimes we worry too much about being hurt; we need to open up more... Risk more.